Submitted by: Andre Starr
Online chat rooms are definitely sexy and they can add spice to your life without spending anything extra. However, many men still have difficulty in getting the most out of online chat rooms and they have a tough time figuring out the mistakes they commit. Here are five chatting mistakes that you should avoid at any cost to ensure better user experience.
#1: Wow! You Met A Lady But Please Keep It Short!
It’s very important to keep your first meeting short and sweet, preferably within the 15 minutes range. This will not only create a value for you but she won t feel that you are desperate. If there is something that can turn off a woman as much as bad behavior, it s desperation. Keep in mind that the first meeting is all about getting to know each other and reaching on an agreement to talk further.
#2: It s A Woman s World, So Stop Being Sloppy
Men definitely don’t like this but the number of female users is usually much higher than females on almost any chat site. The only exceptions are those chat rooms that are exclusively reserved for ladies, where the only male members will be those who try to pull out an online version of Tootsie, the famous Hollywood flick. A sloppy profile and Hi There line in the about section on your profile is not going to be a showstopper.
You need to think about something smarter and better to attract women. An attractive profile with something unique about you is very important.
#3: Don t Push A Friendly Strange
So you found a lady who is quite friendly. It s great but wait; don t be too hasty to close her. Things don t work that usually and being hasty is generally not a positive sign for the opposite sex. They will tend to ignore you quickly and this is surely not going to do any good. Asking for too much information or inappropriate requests etc can only make you lose a good future friend. Focus more on building a trustworthy relationship.
#4: A No Picture Man Is Nothing But NOTHING
Don t accuse me of being rude but this is a harsh fact. Girls are not enthusiastic at all in waiting to see the picture of a guy they were chatting with. The only exception is someone with the golden tongue, the person who can talk anyone into anything. Girls do love surprises but not uploading profile picture, unfortunately, is not one among them. For the typical Venusian, it s just creepy!
Now don t be lazy, consider getting some professional quality profile pictures to be uploaded. You can even arrange a photo shoot with your friends to create some wonderful snaps. Just make sure that you’re keeping this as a secret!
#5: List Your Preferences But Be Good
We all are special in one way or the other but let others find it out! It s a good idea to write about your preferences but there are many chat room profiles that have preferences written like a job interview requirement. This is definitely a turn off for most women. The worst part is that they are still going to talk to you if you say Hi, just out of curiosity but they will never have the interest to take it any further. The most unfortunate thing is that you are highly unlikely to find about the lack of interest for a long time.
These 5 mistakes can cost your success on chat rooms so avoid them at any cost!
About the Author: Andre Starr, the founder of Stargazer Video Chat and online dating expert
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